Cat owners often encounter situations where they want to cuddle and hold their cats, but their feline companions respond by hissing, scratching, or turning away, making it difficult to pick them up. The owners are left puzzled, wondering what’s going on and why their cats suddenly become temperamental.
In fact, if cats don’t like being held, it could be due to several reasons, aside from improper handling:
- Psychological trauma: This often occurs in rescued cats that may have had negative experiences in the past. They may develop resistance and fear towards their human caregivers. In such cases, it’s important for the owners to be patient and gradually build trust with the cat, avoiding forceful handling and helping the cat overcome its fears.
- Lack of socialization: If a cat hasn’t been properly socialized during its early development, it may dislike being touched or handled and become less likely to enjoy being held as it grows older.
- Physical discomfort: If a normally docile cat suddenly resists or reacts strongly when touched, it may indicate an underlying health issue. Owners should carefully examine the cat for any visible injuries or signs of illness. If there are no apparent physical abnormalities but the cat’s behavior continues to be abnormal, it’s advisable to take the cat to a veterinary clinic for a check-up to ensure its physical and mental well-being.
- Independent nature: Some cats simply have personalities that prefer more independence and may not enjoy being held as much as other cats. They may prefer alternative forms of affection, such as sitting nearby or being petted while they rest in a comfortable spot.
- Frightened cat: Cats can be easily frightened by small things, and a cat in a fearful state will be unwilling to be held. They would rather hide in a corner. Forcing a cat to be held in such situations will only increase their resistance and may even lead to accidental injury. In such cases, it’s important to give the cat some calm, quiet time and provide appropriate soothing.
- Overweight cats: Cats that are overweight may feel a sense of weightlessness when lifted, which can decrease their sense of security and cause them to resist being held. Owners of overweight cats should also pay attention to their diet and weight management.
Lastly, even if some cats don’t enjoy being held, it doesn’t mean they don’t love you. They may show their affection and trust in other ways, such as sitting on your lap, sleeping beside you, or simply gazing at you.
